Discovering Hidden Gems: The Power of Talking to Locals
A few years ago, we took a family trip to Hawaii. On our way to Hana, we stopped at Ho'okipa Beach Park to watch the surfers carve through the waves. The view alone was worth the stop, but what made the experience unforgettable were the people we met.
While we admired the beach, we came across a local family selling handcrafted jewelry made from the seeds of the Mgambo tree, also known as Maui Mink. Three generations were there, each contributing to the craft. Every piece of jewelry was unique—not something mass-produced, but a labor of love, made with skill and care.
We struck up a conversation about our plans to drive the famous Road to Hana. It had been raining heavily, and they suggested we stop at Twin Falls instead of continuing, as the road was prone to flooding in such conditions. Their advice ended up being a lifesaver—literally.
As we wrapped up our purchase, we shared stories about our families and learned more about their life in Hawaii. Just as we were about to leave, the grandmother asked, “Have you seen the turtles?”
Turtles?! Where?!
We peered over the sea wall, and what looked like boulders turned out to be sea turtles resting on the shore. The family’s seven-year-old granddaughter offered to show us the best lookout point. She excitedly pointed out the turtles below, her enthusiasm contagious. Before we knew it, we were down on the beach, snapping photos of these incredible creatures—images we would’ve never captured without that family’s kindness and local knowledge.
Quick reminder: sea turtles are a protected species, so it’s important to admire them from a respectful distance without disturbing their rest. See this article for more information.
Taking the family’s advice, we turned back at Twin Falls instead of continuing along the treacherous road. By the time we reached the parking area, the rain was coming down so hard it was almost comical—miserable even for our family, who’s used to the damp weather of Western Oregon. Their tip likely saved us from a dangerous situation.
Why Talking to Locals Matters
This experience taught us a valuable travel lesson: interacting with locals isn’t just about being polite—it’s the key to uncovering the heart of a destination. Locals know their home better than any guidebook, and their stories can add a layer of richness to your trip that you simply can’t buy.
On family trips, skip the chain souvenir shops and instead seek out local artisans. Not only will you support the local economy, but you’ll also walk away with something truly special—a keepsake that carries a story. These personal connections often lead to the kind of tips and insights no online search can offer.
Practical Tips for Connecting with Locals
Start a Conversation: Ask for recommendations about food, attractions, or even local customs. Most people are happy to share their knowledge and pride in their home.
Shop Local: Farmers’ markets, craft fairs, and small vendor stalls are great places to meet locals and support their work. Plus, you’re more likely to find unique, meaningful souvenirs.
Be Curious: Show genuine interest in their culture and way of life. People love sharing their experiences, and you’ll learn so much by simply listening.
Respect Boundaries: Remember to respect local customs and wildlife. As we learned with the turtles, admiration doesn’t mean interference.
By stepping away from the tourist track and engaging with locals, you’re not just visiting a place—you’re experiencing it. That rainy day at Ho'okipa Beach Park was more than just a quick pit stop. It was a reminder that the best travel moments often come when we take the time to connect, listen, and explore with open hearts.
Next time you travel, look beyond the guidebook. Talk to the locals. You never know what treasures—whether a story, a view, or a new friend—you might uncover.
Originally posted in 2017. Updated in 2024.